You will agree with me with me that most people married or still single really believe that “chemistry” or undying love for each other will keep them together forever.As it is commonly said "Love conquers all".
However ,with the growing number of divorces this days,it is most obvious that this isn’t the case.There for knowing a few secrets before getting married will only go a long way to keep most couples together long after tying that knot.
Having known that "love does NOT conquer all",here are some tips to help keep couples,keep that magic in their relationship.
* PRAISES;
You will not believe how powerful praising your partner can play in your relationship.Looking back in my own relationship i stop praising my wife as our relationship matured.This was mainly because i was assuming at that time that she already knows what i was thinking about her.
Actually a day should never go by with out you praising your partner.If you want to be loved and romanced by your sweetheart, love and romance them first. When
they're feeling loved, it is much easier to love in
return.
*REGULAR DATING
Most people thing dating is only for those who are getting to know each other.Well i am here to tell you it's for those who are in a relationship as well.Doing new,fresh and special things keeps a relationship alive.
There is some thing about dating that i can only express with a word "magic".That time you getting yourself prepared just to go out for a date and when you are actually on the date is magical.
You get naturally drawn close together during this time and above all you get to have more uninterrupted time to communicant on a deeper level.
*KEEPING IT REAL
Statistically it's been proven that couples who get married after a longer period of dating have a significantly lower rate of divorce than those who married after a short dating period.
Keep it real let it be natural what is the haste all about.Its not like your are scared if you wait one more month some thing drastic will happen and even if it does it was meant to be whether in marriage or not.
Asking someone for his or her hand in marriage on
the third date isn't romantic. It's gambling.
*UNDERSTANDING
Isn't it true that most couples that have problems always have this to say about the other person"I just don't understand him/her."
Make it your utmost priority to understand each
other 'inside-out' BEFORE you take that walk down
the aisle.
You don't need to be identical, but make an effort
to learn about the things that interest your
partner in life and you'll grow closer as a result.
*ASKING QUESTIONS
What affect most married couples in their relationship is the question they ask to each other and most importantly how they ask the questions.
One of the biggest reason marriages end in divorce is because couples fail to ask the right questions.
Spending quality time with your significant other,and asking each other the right but tough questions BEFORE or during marriage, you're much more likely to live happily ever after.
Michael Webb is the author of “1000 Questions For
Couples" the most comprehensive book of questions
that all couples should ask before getting married.
Covering lovemaking, religion, careers, money,
children & raising them, household work,
personalities, the future and much much more. To
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