Do You Know The Green,Yellow and Red Warning Signs Of A Breakup

Although all relationships are different,there are usually similar when it comes to those warning signs of a breakup which by the way is always wise to look out for.knowing this signs will avoid your chances of splitting up with you lover.Below are the 3 warning signs of a break up

1) The first is the green light when your partner is ignoring you.

This does not mean that there is no talking or communication or any of that no,no, actually by ignoring I mean when every thing is still normal,when the light is still green,but your partner starts loosing interest in you.when they stop asking you how you are,what you are feeling or even were you were?

When this is happening stop for a while and think why your partner could be ignoring you? Have you forgotten his or her birthday or some other special event? Have you been less than loving lately? Is he or she feeling neglected? People usually react over something they feel has happened. This could just be their perception but as he or she is your lover and you should be trying to keep him/her happy, you need to understand his/her point of view.

So why not surprise your partner with a nice meal, sit down and ask them what is going on? Why are they grumpy, although I would probably phrase that question a little better! It could be that they are preoccupied with a problem totally outside your relationship. Communication between couples is not always what it should be; so try talking. Who knows where it may lead?

2) The Yellow light is when your partner doesn’t want to see you or go out with you.

If your lover suddenly becomes unavailable and too busy to see you, the red warning light should go on but wait . There most be a reason why they are avoiding you and you need to find out what that is. Don’t be a doormat or perhaps I should say bedmat. There is no excuse, for not facing your boyfriend or girlfriend, to find out why they think it is acceptable to behave like this. Whatever you do, do not ignore these signals or you could find yourself in receipt of a break up letter.

3) The worst is the Red light which is when your partner is distant in the bedroom

Though sex is only a 3 letter word, it can cause huge problems. Just ask any couple who has been together a long time. Sometimes your family or life’s issues can get in the way of your lovemaking. It is also a well known fact, that the initial burst of animal attraction usually doesn’t last, so not making love every night is quite normal. What is not normal is not being intimate for months on end. Couples are held together by shared emotions and feelings. So don’t underestimate the power of a cuddle.

Although sometimes your partners mood will have nothing to do with your actions,it is always important to note it as an indication of trouble brewing.I guess i am trying to say You should always know when your partner is happy and when he or she is not.Because until you start paying attention and looking out for the above warning signs of a breakup, you will soon find yourself newly single and thinking what most have gone wrong.